“ohana” means “family”

it’s been a busy month, clearly. i was surprised to see that i hadn’t updated my blog in two weeks.

the sleep regression finally ended about a week and a half ago. penny is back to sleeping about 12 hours a night with one feeding around 3am. thing is, she started a new leap recently (that will last a MONTH!). with every development leap, come the 3 c’s: cranky, clingy, and crying. i still get impressed with how accurate the ‘wonder weeks app’ is at describing the abilities penny will pick up during this phase, and what signs are indicative of her leap.

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perfecting her grip... hmm, a future pharmacist like dad??

perfecting her grip… hmm, a future pharmacist like dad??

visit daddy at work

visit daddy at work

for instance, one sign of penny’s leap (“relationships”) is that she will “sleep less, sleep worse, and eat less.” she sleeps fine at night (thank god!) but her naps have been affected, mostly her second nap which used to be 2-3 hours. now, i’m lucky if i can get her to sleep 1.5 hours for her second nap. on days that she naps poorly, i try to squeeze in a fourth nap to compensate for her long awake time between her third nap and bedtime but most days it’s unsuccessful. she will fight me tooth and nail to stay up; it’s as if she knows she shouldn’t be taking a fourth nap.

i also don’t want to push up bedtime because she hasn’t been eating much during the day. some days she’ll have consumed less than 10 oz total and it’s 4pm! she’s been teething recently so it’s uncomfortable for her to eat but it’s also because of her leap. the good thing is that penny ends up consuming large amounts in a short period of time just before bedtime. it’s as if she knows she has to sleep a long stretch and she really should eat. the other night, she ate 9.25 oz an hour before she passed out! i never know how much she’ll eat so i just have milk ready for her and refill the bottle as i go. again, i’m just relieved her nighttime sleep isn’t affected.

speaking of sleep, daylight savings ends this upcoming sunday. supposedly, we gain an hour of sleep but this is so not true for parents. we’re up whenever the baby is up. still, there are preventative measures to keep your baby from waking up at 5:30am and wanting to party.

this article informs us how to make sure your baby doesn’t confuse the time change come next sunday. a week before daylight savings ends, you push back your child’s bedtime in 10-15-minute increments every night or every other night. penny has been going to bed around 6:30, if not sooner, recently so tuesday night i put her to bed at 6:50pm instead of 6:30pm. last night was 7:07pm, and tonight was 7:15pm.  it’s already working because she’s waking up a little later to nurse for the motn (middle of the night) feeding and also for the day. hopefully by the time sunday morning rolls around she will wake up at 7am instead of 6am. this’ll mean that i may have to put her to bed closer to 8pm on saturday night which is really late for her.. i’m worried about keeping her up and making her overtired especially with penny rejecting the fourth nap. i guess that’s why the article suggests short increments so the baby gradually gets used to having the bedtime extended. we’ll see how this goes *fingers crossed*

i’ve been working on this post since yesterday. my sister came down tuesday night to visit and stayed until 4:30pm today. i’m really thankful my sister was able to visit for a few days not only to help take care of penny but also for the adult company. my parents and sister actually came down to visit last friday and brought a ton of food from the restaurant and home. hard to believe, but they hadn’t seen penny since penny’s 100th day celebration back in august! even though they live only an hour and a half away, they’re so busy tending to their businesses they don’t have much time for anything else. i do hope my parents can find more time to visit though. they were amazed at how much penny has grown, but they’re also wistful that they missed out on so much already. that’s why my sister decided to visit again – she doesn’t want to keep missing penny’s milestones and developmental growths, or have her be a stranger to penny.

dad feeding penny

dad feeding penny

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so curious

so curious

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she LOVES her rainforest jumperoo

she LOVES her rainforest jumperoo

penny and i worked on halloween crafts several days ago. we created halloween cards using her hand-and-foot prints.

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today, genie and olivia came over for a play date. it had been a few weeks since i had seen them both so it was great to catch up. olivia can now sit up unassisted and has two teeth! so many changes in such a short amount of time… we plan to get together soon work on christmas crafts! can’t wait!

olivia :)

olivia 🙂

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penny has been aware of, and tracking, yuri for quite some time now but she also gets so amused by her. she’ll laugh and kick her legs whenever she sees yuri. what’s funny is that olivia is just as entertained by yuri. we noticed today that olivia would laugh and get excited whenever she spotted yuri; it was the cutest thing. at one point, both girls kept staring at yuri but she could care less. in fact, she hates it when penny tries to pet her no matter how gently she does it.. i think it’s because she’s still a bit jealous of penny.

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face/off

face/off

speaking of ‘olivia’, my friend, esther, became a first-time mom to a baby girl, olivia, three weeks ago. now i have two baby mama friends with daughters named olivia. congratulations, esther and william! here’s a picture of the beautiful family 🙂

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although i take pictures, and record videos, of penny nearly every day i have very little photos of penny with both dennis and me. i asked dennis to take photos of me with penny, and a neighbor walking by with her dog asked if we wanted family photos. of course we do! hoping we can take some decent photos soon for christmas cards as well.

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penny’s 2 months

baby girl is already 2 months old. cannot even believe it.

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i wish these pictures were bigger in size. if i try to stretch them or change the dimensions, they come out blurry so i have to leave them as they are.

the above photos were taken on the 14th, the day before her two months’ milestone. i began taking photos on the 13th just in case they didn’t come out well or she was being fussy.

here are some from the 13th:

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even with filters, the lighting in the first photo is a lot better than the above.

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the ballerina slippers were a gift and are so adorable. they’re still too big for her so i left the tissue paper in the toe area so they wouldn’t fall off.

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my cousin got penelope the pink tutu and a coworker gifted the ballerina slippers – perfect! in fact, penny’s entire outfit were all gifts. we were very lucky to not have purchased most of her clothes.

not only is she growing in size, but intellectually as well. it seems as if she’s learning something new every day. i try to keep up with recording her milestones but it’s difficult to do when there isn’t much spare time. penny has been sleeping through the night – hooray! – since the 7-week mark but her daytime naps have been decreasing. a speculation may be that the daytime naps are declining because of the increase in nighttime sleep but newborns are still supposed to get a good amount of daytime nap hours as well. by a “good amount”, i mean that two-month-olds supposedly should be napping about every 1.5 to 2 hours. penny had been doing this up until week 6. in my previous posts, i discussed how the 6-week growth spurt was a tough hump to get over… and i thought we were done with the cluster feedings and short naps. well, it turns out that though the sixth week can be brutal one of the baby’s major developments can span from the 6-week mark to the 8-week mark. of course all babies are different but they’re right on the nose for penny.

where am i getting all of this information? usually, i’m no longer up every few hours at night because she’s sleeping through the night – again, hooray! – but whenever i am feeding penny i’m typically browsing my phone; and i research current issues or problems that we may be experiencing at the moment. plus, i downloaded the free app “wonder weeks” (there’s also a book) that informs when a baby makes “leaps”, or new developments. it provides guidance on what to expect and how to help the baby. penny is currently in leap 2 which is recognizing patterns. she’s recently discovered the use of her hands and has been putting them in her mouth to self-soothe particularly when she first wakes up. her newborn reflexes are also slowly disappearing such as the grasp reflex. her hands are much more relaxed instead of being in fist-mode all of the time. (this is also because she has discovered the use of her hands.)

another helpful app is ‘baby tracker.’ i’m obsessed with keeping data and we’ve been tracking penny’s feedings and diaper changes since day 1. we ditched the paper and pen method when i realized that an app is much easier to use since i always have my phone on me (and we’re not wasting paper!)

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again, i wish these images were bigger. i did stretch them a bit so they’re blurry here. i love this app because i can track her feedings, diaper changes, sleep, activity/milestone, and pump sessions. there’s also a week-by-week graph to compare the stats so you can notice any patterns.

penny was finally able to meet most of her extended family last weekend. we went up to massachusetts on saturday to attend my cousin’s (technically, first cousin once removed) high school graduation party. it was great to see many of my family members and have them see penny for the first time.

the commute was a nightmare initially because of standstill traffic due to an accident. we were 4 hours late for a housewarming party in new hampshire that we were planning to go to first. granted, we did leave the house around 1:15 but we arrived at my cousin’s graduation party around 4! penny was tired because she didn’t really nap in the car (she needs the car to be in motion and much of the time was spent crawling at a snail’s pace). her feeding time arrived and since we were going so slowly, i ended up nursing her in the backseat. not safe, we know but it had to be done. i also had to change her soiled diaper on the car seat while i sat on the floor. good times.

 

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trying to keep penny entertained in the car

gathered around penny

gathered around penny

the girls kept commenting on the smallness of penny’s hands and feet.

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she was overwhelmed and stimulated, to say the least.

being a first-time mom, i’ve been tired and overwhelmed. lately, i’ve been slowly going out more and resuming my social life. i purchased this chambray jumpsuit maybe 3 weeks ago and i finally got to wear it last saturday. the espadrille wedges were purchased before penny was born and they made their grand debut at last.
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the reason we left our house late was because penny was sleeping. never wake a sleeping baby! sleep is so precious.. for everyone. when she finally woke up, i nursed her and we tried to leave as soon as possible so she would be in a good mood and she wouldn’t have to eat in the car (that didn’t happen). at least we were able to take advantage of the sale target was having on baby items.

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we spent $200 on baby items (diapers), so we got a $40 gift card. for every two diapers (had to be same brand and size), we also received a $15 gift card. organic brands = $10 gift card. we got $80 in gift cards and then purchased more diapers with them… and got more gift cards. penny’s currently wearing size 1 so we purchased sizes 2-4. interestingly, size 4 was sold out for pampers and huggies so i purchased babyganics instead.

penny’s 100th day is august 23rd and i’ve slowly started gathering ideas on how to celebrate it. long ago in korea, childhood diseases were common and infant mortality rate was high. to protect their children, parents wouldn’t bring them outdoors until their 100th day. the 100th day celebration is a way to celebrate the baby’s health. today, many celebrate it because of tradition but more so for photo opportunities. with pinterest and instagram in our lives, it’s easy to want to go all out and make everything a big deal.  we plan on having the 100th day celebration be family members only. the first birthday, or dol, will be the grand(er) party.

here’s one final pic of penny to close:

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so ladylike…